Archive for January, 2008

29 Jan

Simple Steps to Greater Confidence

Building up your own self confidence isn’t any great mystery. It isn’t even particularly difficult.
Yes, I know that when your life turns dark, and despair grabs you by the gut, it can seem like you’ll never see sunshine again. But that’s an illusion. And like most illusions in life, despair is mostly self-induced.
If you’ve been [...]

23 Jan

The Secret of REALLY Powerful Focus

So you think you’re focusing? Okay… how are your results? Maybe you’re achieving everything you set out to do. Perhaps you’re reaching the targets you’ve set within the time limits you expected.
If so, then your focus is powerful. But if not… maybe it’s time to adjust your ideas about focus and what’s really involved.
This week’s [...]

23 Jan

Inner Peace Is NOT Passivity

Do you consider peace to be a state of not-this or non-that? Maybe an empty place where no demands are ever placed on you?

Most would define inner peace as a state of non-struggle, non-tension, non-conflict against something. And while a part of gaining peace involves releasing your “stuff,” the act of release is definitely not [...]

20 Jan

Control Your Words — Control Your Destiny

Mike had run into a stubborn little glitch with his affirmations. “When I say the word ‘productive’,” he told me, “I get a little spike of self-doubt.”
Each time Mike affirmed that he was productive, it stirred up in him a deep feeling of mis-match — what psychologists call cognitive dissonance. This basically means he was [...]

14 Jan

Will a Good Domain Name Stop YOU?

It was a simple question on a business forum run by a large U.S. bank:
I am planning an ecommerce website to retail paintball products. I’m looking for a name, but the one I came up with is already registered. So I’m stuck, which puts me back at the start. I want a memorable [...]

14 Jan

How Popular Is Your Name?

Here’s a fun thing to do when you’re bored. Or use it as a source of information to entertain your friends at parties.